moving on from a relationship, or just anything in your past for that matter is really difficult. i think we all try to revert back to something we always found so normal and comfortable… that’s why we’d rather fix the issue than to move on and trying it all over again. that’s why break ups are tricky. when you’ve been in a relationship for so long, the sudden change of once having someone there must be really difficult. remember to always remind yourself: is it even worth fixing again, or should the piece of shit just be replaced already?
my parents thought me that you should always forgive everyone… no matter the differences you had in the past. why jump in mud and roll around on a brand new white carpet? believe me, it would be a huge load off your back, you are left at ease with no crowded thoughts, and you have peace of mind. no one says it would be easy, and no one said you should forgive everyone who did you wrong all at once… but the goal here is to be better than them and confuse the fuck out of them. that is the ultimate plan.